Glass-and-Sand

Futile musings of an old ghost

Category: I am a scott

  • Breaking Perfidious Addiction 101

    Breaking Perfidious Addiction 101

    The author reflects on a personal addiction to gaming, highlighting the importance of willpower in overcoming mental dependencies. By canceling an account, they regained control over their time and finances, emphasizing that recognizing such addictions is vital for maturity. Ultimately, healthy hobbies and balanced living foster fulfillment and productivity.

  • Instinct or Soft Fantasy 98

    Instinct or Soft Fantasy 98

    The best advice shared is to trust one’s instinct, rooted in personal experience and knowledge. Instinct provides essential guidance in moral and practical decisions, promoting independence from societal norms and external influences. Embracing and listening to our instincts can lead to more authentic choices in life’s complexities, fostering personal empowerment and fulfillment.

  • Aggressive Right and Wrong 97

    Aggressive Right and Wrong 97

    The issue of certainty and belief is explored, highlighting the danger of absolute assurance and the importance of skepticism. Embracing uncertainty allows for open-mindedness and understanding, fostering growth and compassion in the face of diverse perspectives. It calls for questioning assumptions and accepting the value of not having all the answers.

  • Bold & Achievable Goals 87

    Bold & Achievable Goals 87

    Goals are set, not planned. The key is planning how to achieve them. Confusing goal achievement with setting is a common mistake. Life without clear goals leads to chaos. Individuals must contemplate their physical and spiritual objectives, considering feasibility, consequences, and adjustments, while plans should be stable to reach the target. Navigation analogy: consider route,…

  • Pain and Suffering or Death 80

    Pain and Suffering or Death 80

    Ivan Ilyin emphasizes the idea that suffering serves a higher purpose, and imagines a world free from pain and suffering. He warns of the dire consequences of a painless existence, leading to amoral, soulless beings devoid of love and drive. He ultimately advocates for the necessity of suffering for human dignity, spirit, and culture. Hedonism,…

  • Typical & Eventful Calm 77

    Typical & Eventful Calm 77

    The writer reflects on the concept of a “typical” day, emphasizing their preference for innovation and change. They describe how they approach projects and daily activities with a sense of improvisation and eclectic interests, highlighting their varied pursuits such as writing, gardening, and reading. Their days, they conclude, are largely untypical.

  • Hesitant Self  76

    Hesitant Self 76

    The self is a complex, ever-changing entity. The author delves into the struggle of self-identity, acknowledging past mistakes and the constant quest for self-discovery through writing. Themes of denial, mystery, and the allure of the unknown guide the author’s introspective journey, shaping the essence of their being.

  • Sexy Laziness 64

    Sexy Laziness 64

    The author reflects on what improves with age, finding growth in writing, avid reading, and a passion for photography. However, waning wanderlust prompts contemplation on laziness versus genuine energy decline. Aging remains a mysterious journey, offering unexpected joy in evolving selves.

  • Illusion & Delight 61

    Illusion & Delight 61

    In conclusion, let me make one thing clear – I am certainly no expert on anything… except for you. Yes, that’s right! I may not have all the answers, but when it comes to you, I’ve got it down pat. From your ever-changing hairstyles to your fashion choices, your favorite books to your dream destinations,…

  • Growth 31

    Growth 31

    The author reflects on personal growth and the importance of two principles: not exceeding one’s capabilities and listening before speaking. They emphasize the non-linear nature of growth and highlight the societal impact of disregarding these principles. The text advocates for upholding common sense, humility, and honesty, cautioning against the consequences of ignoring these values.

  • Boredom, Ineffable Truth 3

    Boredom, Ineffable Truth 3

    The writer cleverly dodges boredom, evading TV bores and pseudo-experts. Families, it seems, have harmless bores, but who doesn’t? Avoiding self-boredom is tough as we age, but trusted friends can help. The antidote? Diverse reading and ruthless self-reflection. So, how not to be a bore? Maybe write a book about it!

  • Money, Life and Excruciating Uncertainties

    Money, Life and Excruciating Uncertainties

    Budgeting is crucial for individuals and nations to manage income and expenses. Anticipating and planning for larger costs, balancing caution and risk, and mitigating financial risks are key aspects of responsible money management.