I have fun with him!

I have fun with him! First and foremost I tease him, tell him is not the alpha somebody he thinks he is, and then I am, for a while, sweet to him, you know, the way we can be… This of course is very private, personal, coz’ I know him so well (and then, I am single, no-one else to worry about)…

So he loves the way I play with him, he enjoys himself, asks for more. And, of course, I refuse, so that he begs, gets angry, becomes even easier to tease.

But I do other things

But I do other things, show him beauty where he might not see it, help him with his photography, I have a sense of what is going to look good – all sorts, from trees to people, of course. And then, I model for him, in a secret and seductive way… I think I will stop here, the rest is between him and little me.

But perhaps I should say, that he himself is very generous, tender, protective, a gentleman. He takes me out, gives me presents, tells me sweet things, how he enjoys all the fun we have together, that he could not be himself, without me. It’s very sweet. One day I asked him what he cherished most in our relationship. He said: “seduction“.

What Wikipedia says

“Strategies of seduction include conversation and sexual scripts,^[1] paralingual features,^[2] non-verbal communication,^[3][4] and short-term behavioural strategies.^[5] The word seduction stems from Latin and means literally “leading astray”.^[6] As a result, the term may have a positive or negative connotation. Famous seducers from history or legend include Lilith, Giacomo Casanova, and the fictional character Don Juan. The emergence of the Internet and technology has supported the availability and the existence of a seduction community, which is based on discourse about seduction. This is predominately by “pickup artists” (PUA). Seduction is also used within marketing to increase compliance and willingness.^[7]

Seduction, seen negatively, involves temptation and enticement, often sexual in nature, to lead someone astray into a behavioural choice they would not have made if they were not in a state of sexual arousal. Seen positively, seduction is a synonym for the act of charming someone—male or female—by an appeal to the senses, often with the goal of reducing unfounded fears and leading to their “sexual emancipation.” Some sides in contemporary academic debate state that the morality of seduction depends on the long-term impacts on the individuals concerned, rather than the act itself, and may not necessarily carry the negative connotations expressed in dictionary definitions.^[8]“

Inspired by today’s WP prompt, and Three Things Challenge #M582

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